Monday, February 25, 2008

Catching Up

We visited Ai Li's city, Zhuhai on Thursday. A most tropical, gorgeous place. The weather was perfect and we had about 20 minutes on the beach. The kids thought it was so cool to be touching the South China Sea. The orphanage director came with us and we took her out to lunch. It is so obvious that Ai Li has left family and friends, and it's no small wander that she's pining for them. After a long drive back to the hotel, we had a very early night.

Got to the airport on Friday morning for our trip to Guilin (gway leeng). Flight cancelled. No reason - just cancelled. Next one out at 8:00 pm. The airline put us in a bus and sent us off to a hotel in Baiyun to hang out. They also provided us a meal of roasted duck and rice. Not bad for a flight problem!! The transportation collected us and drove us back for the flight. We were very thankful for such wonderful treatment.

I truly think that if Mother Nature could apologise to the people of China for the squallor, filth, poverty etc. by giving them a spot to find one day, She did it by providing Guilin. It is beautiful, cleaner than any other city we've seen and just different. Our boat cruise on the Li River was a gift that if anyone can ever enjoy, they should. It was a four hour lunch cruise through mountains and small villages. The weather was wonderful. I have tons of photos, but cannot find my gadget right now, so words will have to do. Our next day was spent touring caves and climbing and being served the most delicious meal I personally can remember having enjoyed. We visited the night market and then crashed. Flew back to Guangzhou this morning and here we are.

Ai Li is doing much better. She's really developed a monkey-ish relationship with our kids and has just discovered how much fun a big brother is. Store keepers everywhere keep telling her how lucky she is that Mama took her out and brought her into the family and she's less than impressed with Mama. I am to blame for everything that is wrong with her life right now it seems. She will let me take her to the bathroom and give her medicine. That's it. At least she has someone or something to take it out on, and tag! I'm it. Sure wish those store keepers would shut up or at least drag Dad into it too!! Time will help, I know. We had an episode with car sickness today and she did let me help and then hold her. Finally got checked back into this hotel and she let me help her into the shower. 30 minutes later, and the water still going, I went in. She'd plugged the drain and was having the swim of a lifetime in there. Her impish smile can move mountains, I assure you and she and I shared a private giggle before she remembered who she was giggling with. Ha! Mom got one in!

Like Molly was for ages, Ai Li is either totally happy or totally blank-faced. She's picking up words we think. Although she's not saying them, she knows full well what we're talking about sometimes, which is wonderful, because Mom acting out the potty manoeuver in public is not the prettiest sight!! Now she understands 'bathroom'.

Cody's had one night of being sick and sleeping next to the trashcan followed by one low-keyed day. That appetite is back and in full swing now! Steve's having his turn with the tummy grumbles today. So far KNOCK ON WOOD the girls are holding strong! As we've all had the same food, we're wondering if the men's room may be the culprit.

Zhuhai families - I have other photos for each of you, but posted the best. It takes a long time for me to load them (this is dial-up). We ask that everyone still pray for our little one who struggles with her place in her new family. Thanks.

6 comments:

Waitingfaithfully said...

Sue,
Sounds like you are seeing some wonderful sites, and being taken care of in China! Praying for Ai Li as she continues to find her place. Praying for you as you continue to pour in love, and wait patiently for it to be returned to you, oh how hard that must be. Glad that you girls are staying healthy and that Cody is better. Praying Steve feels better soon!
Thank you so much for the update!
Blessings to China!
Tina

Unknown said...

Hey Hubers,

So glad to have the update! The river cruise sounded great, and very relaxing, which I bet was a respite after such upheavals of emotions happening for the past few months!

I was confused about the shopkeepers and Ai Li...do you mean to say they are talking with her about taken away from China? I wasn't quite sure I understood what you were saying is the post.

Have a great week, and know we are praying for you.

Love to you,

MV et al

Anonymous said...

I was the bad one with my oldest from Taiwan Sue...don't worry, it gets better once you get home! It sounds like you have had wonderful weather for some sightseeing!!!! Godd luck with the "Stomach" stuff...I always worry about that . Have a great trip home and we look forward to hearing more later!!
Love,
Tracy

Anonymous said...

Sue,
We've been following your journey and sending up many prayers. A big hey to all the gang and thanks for allowing us to share the experience!
Love you all and look forward to seeing you home! :)
Deb and Steve

Anonymous said...

Anna and I check in everyday for your updates. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. You are surrounded by angels as you continue this journey. Sue,
you know the one who is safest gets blamed. And your love radiates from you and makes you safe for her.
Katy

Hello- from anna! How are you doing? Hi Molly, how is it having a sister? Is it fun?

Lillian E. Swift said...

Hello from Hillsborough,N.C.
How I do look forward to your entries. I stay on watch!
Perhaps you have a budding swimming champion in your family. That bathtub swim was so funny.
Ai Li can't resist you long. Somehow she may feel that she is betraying the person, who has been a mother image to her for a long time, without really understanding. She probably wants to melt in your arms and enjoy all the love you show her, but there is this temporary barrier that holds her back. Right now Molly is leading the way. Can you imagine how much harder it would be,with not a face in the family that she could relate to. This strong tie with Molly could delay her fully accepting you for a short time . When you get her home,and after further adjusting to this setting , Mom will be so loved by her. No one could resist our Sweet Sue for very long. Your new daughter is taking little steps presently,and really doing it well, but watch for that BIG leap!!!!Oh Happy Day!! Your friend and neighbor, Lillian, or Liller Piller!! Take you choice